For years I looked like a “sorted woman” — capable, confident, like I was nailing life.

On the outside, everything appeared to be working. But on the inside, I was completely disconnected from the whisper of my own truth. Constantly searching, endlessly striving and forever chasing the feeling of finally being happy, successful, grounded — or whatever the hell I thought would silence the internal chaos.

(SPOILER ALERT: IT NEVER DID.)

I just kept pushing, digging deep, doing… running my life at a million miles an hour, fuelled by generous portions of numbing techniques — overworking, excessive exercising, partying hard, binge eating, retail therapy. These weren’t bad habits; they were wounds. I just didn’t yet have the language for them.

So used to planning, fixing, organising, thinking ten steps ahead and carrying everything, that I didn’t realise my feminine energy was being ignored, blocked and silenced. I had no idea how much power I’d been dismissing: my intuition, imagination, vision, creativity, my ability to connect deeply with other women, my capacity to feel and to know beyond logic. I’d been trained to see all of that as “soft”, “irrational”, or “a luxury” — when in reality, it was the missing half of my strength. MY POWER.

Eventually, I realised I was living in full-blown masculine overdrive

As I began to untangle my energetic patterns — where I was overusing, underusing, and completely abandoning myself — SOMETHING CRACKED OPEN.

I could suddenly see how deeply internal and societal patriarchy had shaped my behaviour, my beliefs, and even my nervous system.

And the more I healed, the more I recognised how many other women were living this same split: powerful, intuitive, brilliant women who had never been shown how to trust their feminine essence or harness their masculine in a healthy, steady way.

This work has become non-negotiable for me.

I’VE LIVED THE DISHARMONY I NOW HELP WOMEN UNTANGLE and have walked the path back to my truth. I’ve rebuilt my confidence from the inside out. And now I’m committed to helping women reclaim their energy, clarity, intuition, creativity — as well as their right to build a life that actually feels like THEIRS, not just the one they were trained to perform in.

I’m not here TO teach women how to

cope BETTER INSIDE OF broken systems

— I’m here because I’ve lived inside them, questioned them, and chosen a different way.

My working life began in male-dominated industries and entrepreneurship. I worked in construction as a Quantity Surveyor and Project Manager, learning first-hand how to survive, adapt, and overperform in environments built on good old masculine bias. Alongside this, I’ve been an entrepreneur for more than twenty years — building businesses in property, retail, creative workshops, and now energetic empowerment. I’ve lived the highs and the hard bits: debt, divorce, motherhood, burnout, reinvention, and the relentless pressure to just keep going.

Alongside lived experience, I hold an ICF-certified life coaching qualification and have completed circle facilitation training. I’ve worked with multiple coaches over the years to explore my own energetic wounds and blocks — not to “fix” myself, but to understand energetic harmony and make it a daily practice rather than a theory. I’ve immersed myself in extensive reading and learning around patriarchy, energetics, truth, identity, and women’s lived experience, and I’ve designed and hosted workshops for groups of women across these themes.

1:1 ENERGETIC EMPOWERMENT COACHING

WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(through Rebelle)

COMMUNITY LEADERSHIP
(within Rebelle Coven)

THOUGHT LEADERSHIP
(via my podcast +
forthcoming book

Today, my work spans multiple spaces because women need different doorways in:

What equips me most, though, is my ability to talk about wounds and truth in a way that’s accessible, real, and grounded in the everyday. I BRIDGE WOMEN FROM OVERUSING THEIR MASCULINE (the overdoing, overthinking, overcarrying) INTO ENERGETIC EMPOWERMENT . I name how society is harming women without blaming them, shaming them, or getting hypothetical. And I guide women back to their real superpower: energetic harmony and the freedom that comes from living authentically.

For clarity — I am not a therapist,
and I’m not a guru.

I don’t spiritually bypass pain or dress hard truths up as positivity. I’m a woman, also figuring it out and keeping it real. Because this work is about awareness, responsibility, and choice —NOT QUICK FIXES OR FALSE PROMISES.

women who trust themselves

I want to see women who are no longer trapped in overdoing or self-abandonment. Who honour their intuition as much as their intellect, their rest as much as their drive, and their truth as much as their roles. When women live in ENERGETIC HARMONY, they don’t just feel better — they show up differently, lead differently, and relate differently.

THIS WORK ISN’T ABOUT WITHDRAWING FROM THE WORLD

It’s about engaging with it from a place of authenticity, power and self respect. When women reconnect with their energy and live from truth rather than expectation, everything changes — not just for them, but for the systems they’re part of.

MY VISION FOR WOMEN IS SIMPLE BUT RADICAL:

If something here resonates, trust that nudge.

This work isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about remembering who you are.

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I’m Lucy Sayles

An Energetic Empowerment Activist guiding women to break free from patriarchal conditioning, reclaim their truth and live in energetic harmony.